Bump in the road

Looks like I can’t do anything the easy way. I wentto thehospital Friday morning to have my port put back in, in preparation for starting chemo on Monday. What should have been a 30 minute procedure turned into a 55 hour hospital stay. Not only could he not get the port in on either side (scar tissue and other problems), but I wound up with a collapsed lung in the process, which required a chest tube. 

The lung had healed by Saturday morning, but (of course) they require another 24 hours of observation before they take out the tube. And to add to the drama, they had trouble removing the tube this morning. But I’m now at home, on my sofa, feeling almost normal.

Thank you all for your prayers and offers to help Greer with the boys. They were great, and Greer was (and always is) a rock.He gets us all through this with flying colors.

Not sure yet what happens from here, but I’ll let you all know when I know.

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Here we go again!

Hello, friends. It’s been about a year since I last blogged, mainly because there wasn’t much to share. But as many of you have heard, we found out last week that my cancer has returned. There are several spots on my liver and lungs. I have spoken with the doctors at Duke and MD Anderson (in Houston), and all agree that it’s chemo once more. Assuming it does it’s job and shrinks the spots, I’ll then go on maintenance therapy.

Right now, I’m awaiting a start date, and will post that when I know it.  The kids know,but we’re also trying to keep things low key. Mny people have asked what they can do.  The answer right now is to please pray…for healing, strength, wisdom for the doctors, for Greer and for the boys. We are so blessed to have such a large group of prayer warriors out there, and we are so grateful.

So, thanks for tagging along on this journey again! Love to you all —

Kathryn

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Treatment #4

Well, I’m now 1/3 of the way through. I seem to be able to manage the nausea a little better, which is good. Still very tired. Had a little bump in the road today. My white blood count is low, but they let me go ahead with treatment anyway. Which I’m happy about, as I don’t want to get off schedule. When I go in on Friday to turn in my pump, they will give me an injection of something (don’t remember what) to try to boost my white count. Until then, just trying to avoid any sick kids at school. Think I’ll hole up in my office tomorrow!

And I’m not the only patient this week. Our 6 month old schnauzer Daisy was spayed today, and is spending the night at the vet. They called after the surgery to let us know that it went very well and she is doing just fine. The challenge will be trying to keep her calm and the boys calm when she returns home. Fortunately, they’ll be camping Friday and Saturday, so it will just be us girls taking it easy!

Love to you all —

Kathryn

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Back to normal…sort of

For the few of you that regularly follow me here, I’m sorry that I’ve been away for awhile. I went back to work on the 28th, and guess that meant life was back to normal. And really, do you want to read about the laundry, making lunches and doing homework? But seriously, it hasn’t been all mundane. I’m back to leading the kids praise team (with Will) on Sunday mornings, and watching Jonathan play soccer on Saturdays. And this Sunday we will leave for Florida to see mom and dad for Spring Break.

I have started chemo…round 2 was today. The treatments are longer (yuck) and seem to be making me more nauseous (big yuck). Ironically, the nurse is wondering if the new anti-nausea medication, which I didn’t have last time, is what’s making me sick. The plus side is a lost another 2 pounds with the last treatment. Thank God there’s a plus side to this! 🙂 Anyway, I’m hoping it will be gone before we get on the plane.

Thanks for reading…I’ll try to be more diligent.

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On the road again…

Went back to the surgeon today. He says I’m healing nicely…heart rate good, lungs clear, incision looks good…and I’m about 1/3 of the way to feeling “normal”. The best news…I can drive! I’m so excited to be on my own! He told me I should take the car and go shopping (not really want Greer wanted to hear!). And he cleared me to return to work. My first day back is Monday, Mar. 28.

Tomorrow morning I go for CT scans. My oncologist wants a post-surgery base line look at everything. Easy test, other that the 90 minutes I have to spend drinking the crystal-light flavored contrast stuff I have to drink. Who knows, after that, I may take myself on a little shopping trip!

I’ll post again after my first treatment…March 30. Until then, it’s March Madness time. GO HEELS!

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Chemo, round 2

Hello! We met with my oncologist today, and he is recommending that I go through chemo again. I will be on the same regimen as last time, with one additional drug. I will begin on March 30 and receive 12 treatments…one every other week. The side effects are not too bad, and he says I should react about the same as I did last time. The kids aren’t really happy I’m having to do this (of course, neither am I), but I just have to remind them that it’s the best way to keep me healthy.

I go back to the surgeon next week, and will hopefully get the okay to drive and find out when I can return to work. I’m getting a little stir crazy being at home this much!

Thanks for continuing on this journey with me!

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Making progress

I’ve been home for 4 days now, and it feels so good! There is nothing like being in your own home, with your family, your own bed…even the puppy! Although I’m still quite sore, I’m trying to move around a little more each day. My parents went home yesterday; I know the boys and I will really miss them, but I know they’re ready to get back to their routines as well. Greer is doing a great job at keeping the kids on track and playing nurse to me…he’s even doing a better job changing my dressing than the real nurse!

Many of you have asked how you can help with meals. Now that mom, the great chef, has left, I think we’re ready. My dear friend Stephanie has organized everything on a website that you can log into and sign up for what you’d like to bring. Here are the details.

Here is a link to our meal schedule:

http://www.takethemameal.com/meals.php?t=KHQH4835

Another way others can access your meal schedule is:Visit: http://www.TakeThemAMeal.com
Recipient Last Name: dickerson
Password: wordgirl

I go back to visit the surgeon on Wednesday, so I’ll post an update then. Thanks!

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Home sweet home!

It’s Thursday afternoon, just after 2, and after a quick detour by the Chick-fil-a for a Peppermint Chocolate Shake, I am ensconced on the sofa, wrapped in my snuggie, and watching the WGC Accenture Golf Championship with my dad. So basically, life if good right now.

I can’t wait for the boys to get home; they don’t know I’ll be here. I’m looking forward to surprising them…so, if you see them before I do…don’t let them know I’m here!

As for what’s next, I’m not really sure. I will follow up with the surgeon next week to have staples removed, and then will visit the oncologist in the next few weeks to plan the next step(s). Thanks again for following along my journey and for continuing to pray for me and my family. We’ll keep you posted…

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Heart rate decreases!

It’s been a long time coming, but my heart rate is finally starting to come down. Still hovering around 100, but more in the 90’s than the 100’s. Still no “perfect” or final explanation of this. The cardiologist seems to think that it’s just how my body reacted to all of this stress. He said he’d be more concerned if it was too low, because I wouldn’t have the strength to fight. So to those who know me well, I guess it’s no real surprise to find that I’m a strong-willed competitor.

The surgeon still isn’t 100% convinced, and I need another day or 2 anyway to get pain/recovery situated from 2nd surgery. I’ve heard from other Dr’s and nurses here is that what makes him so good is that he is so very thorough. Although even he has begun to refer to me as his problem child!

So, looks like I’ve got another 2 more days to recover here, then home to the boys. I sure miss them. I realized today that I’ve never gone this long without seeing them. We continue to be grateful for your prayers, and will be in touch soon.

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Sunday Evening 2/20

Greer on Kathryn’s behalf…

The surgery to clear the infection this afternoon, Sunday, went well. For better or worse, it did not require an epidural, meaning she didn’t have the same level of pain management and she was well aware of the incision following the procedure.

Since it was a surgery with an incision, the nurse said she’s sort of back to square one, on a clear liquid diet, then soups, then bland foods, then……a little too familiar for her at this point.

She was in good spirits, jokingly asking if they could add a zipper for the incision rather than using staples should they need to go back in. The surgeon, Dr. Fowler, joined the game by saying that since he was so busy I could do the surgery, but only if I had stayed at a Holiday Inn Express the night before. Good guy.

The nurses are really attentive and thoughtful. Can’t imagine the stress and frustration they constantly have to deal with. Imagine if all of your clients are going through one of the worst times of their lives and in need of constant care. As soon as things look up for a patient, they get to go home, but the nurses just get another patient.

Critical indicators of when Kathryn can come home are her heart rate and white blood cell count, the signs that pointed to the infection they needed to address Sunday.

Prayers and support continue to bless us. While waiting for her to return from surgery, I sat and listened to her blackberry hum with texts, e-mails, FB posts and even some calls. She doesn’t talk much on the phone because it zaps her energy. I was also overwhelmed with the outpouring of support at church this morning.

The boys are doing well but understandably miss their mom. While we’re not trying to keep anything from them, we’re trying to keep their life as normal as possible. (Dad doing laundry and making lunches is freaky enough for them.)

Kathryn’s parents continue to be superheroes. Grandma’s meals are gobbled up by the boys and Pap Pap is a master ball player. Their presence here is a real blessing from all of this.

We realize that many feel helpless standing by but we really do covet your prayers and we promise to welcome and invite help when Kathryn gets home. Grandma and Pap Pap will need to get rest and get back home soon. Stephanie Ennis, a dear friend of Kathryn’s, a member of our church small group, and the Assistant Principal at Huntersville Elementary, has agreed to coordinate a meal schedule soon.

Again, we know God did not stricken Kathryn with cancer but we know He can bring blessings from it. (A few people have told us they have scheduled colonoscopies as a result of Kathryn’s experience – no telling whose life may be saved.)

Our friends, family and even strangers have been impacted and have impacted us as a result of this.

Thank you all for your love and support.

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